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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 12:56 AM
I try to encourage her and tell her shes doing great
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Listened for any responses so far?
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 12:56 AM
I was in school today doing schoolwork
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I felt a
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Idk
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Tingles in my chest is the best way to explain it
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I remember one time i had an imaginary version of someone I treated them as an imaginary friend but i also remember when i created an imaginary friend off of someone i always told them that they arent exactly that said person
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By the way depending on what guides you have read you may have been sold the notion that parroting is bad. Disregard this point of view=D
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By the way depending on what guides you have read you may have been sold the notion that parroting is bad. Disregard this point of view=D
berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:02 AM
Ive always parroted
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The one's i read say that although it is frowned upon by the community there is nothing wrong with it (edited)
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If you want to go the parroting route simply imagine them; rather than force a response, simply allow one to happen. This is your basic empathy circuitry firing and it's what you want. It's real, you just need to accept the reality of it for it become real.
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There is a subtle distinction between the forcing of a response and allowance
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:03 AM
In order for something to become real believe it is right?
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But if you try it out it's experientially different
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:03 AM
I found that the human mind is powerful
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When relating to the mind
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If u believe something is true it can be
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Like if you believe that in lucid dreams you cannot do such and such then guess what Yog cant
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Some people struggle with it depending on their level of skepticism, but you seem used to the notions of suggestion so hopefully that knowledge makes you understand it's really that simple; yes.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:05 AM
If you believe lucid dreaming is easy it becomes easy
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Some people struggle with it depending on their level of skepticism, but you seem used to the notions of suggestion so hopefully that knowledge makes you understand it's really that simple; yes.
berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:05 AM
Im not skeptical of the concept
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Just of my own ability
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Idk if I can do it
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I feel its a big step for my development
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It sounds exceedingly magical but it's actually I think an easier practice than lucid dreaming. In lucid dreaming there's a distinct skill involved in maintaining a dream, there's skills involved in remaining conscious in WILDs. I don't really think tulpamancy, at its core, is a skill. It's just the acceptance of one idea, followed by experiencing the stuff that comes with that, followed by that idea being reinforced as real by that cool and weird stuff happening. Tulpamancy gets fallen into accidentally by spiritualists and authors all the time, I think. I don't think it's anywhere near the level of consistent lucid dreaming in terms of difficulty if you ask me. (edited)
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:09 AM
Neither are difficult with the right mindset
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Im on day one of being an LD
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Haven't succeeded yet but i will
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Day one of tulpamancy
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If I had to make a comparison, tulpamancy is more like the difficulty of getting consistent remembered dreams. It's about that simple. Teach your mind that you want something and it simply happens. It's more doable than people realize, but it runs counter to what we've learned about ourselves.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:12 AM
Well
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Now switching, possession, visualization, all that is lucid-dream level stuff.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:12 AM
Social rules and
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Norms
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Normally push things like tulpamancy away
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cough Outside of particular circumstances when we call 'mancers prophets and shamans and psychics...
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But yes.
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:B
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cough Outside of particular circumstances when we call 'mancers prophets and shamans and psychics...
berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:20 AM
Yea sounds about right
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I see why people would be unsettled about it
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I remember wanting an imaginary friend
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That could think on their own
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In a way they already do, it's just your mind weakens them to prevent you from... well... having psychosis. If you felt all voices as "real" as your own you would be in a perpetual state of confusion and dissonance.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:31 AM
Wait
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But it is a state that exists, and it kinda shows that it's possible to strip away the illusion
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:31 AM
I have a theory
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Hear me out
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When a human is developing different thoughts and such compete until the strongest one forms a full identity
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@Zen
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Thoughts?
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Thag may be what causes the mind to automatically do that
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During thejcompetition
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Mmm. I would say that ideas compete early on, but not necessarily the actual perspective-feeling that the brain has to create identities. The brain tries to maintain control over other thoughtforms via dissociation, and I can see it being actively dangerous for such a competition to occur when it's easier to just integrate ideas into one perspective. Though I think we are used to dealing with slightly altered and semi-competing thoughtforms in the form of things like alternate personalities for work and friends and family and so on. But there's nothing incongruent about holding all these things at once. That said it's not a completely out-there hypothesis. We develop empathetic ability about a year before we develop "categorical self" in terms of "I am this". So perhaps; It's somewhat unfalsifiable though without brain scans or something to support.
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Mmm. I would say that ideas compete early on, but not necessarily the actual perspective-feeling that the brain has to create identities. The brain tries to maintain control over other thoughtforms via dissociation, and I can see it being actively dangerous for such a competition to occur when it's easier to just integrate ideas into one perspective. Though I think we are used to dealing with slightly altered and semi-competing thoughtforms in the form of things like alternate personalities for work and friends and family and so on. But there's nothing incongruent about holding all these things at once. That said it's not a completely out-there hypothesis. We develop empathetic ability about a year before we develop "categorical self" in terms of "I am this". So perhaps; It's somewhat unfalsifiable though without brain scans or something to support.
berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:41 AM
Basically yea
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Very early on i what i mean
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Basically i think once a child experiences thought
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The different thoughts keep going until it develops more and more
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In a way they already do, it's just your mind weakens them to prevent you from... well... having psychosis. If you felt all voices as "real" as your own you would be in a perpetual state of confusion and dissonance.
berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:44 AM
It might explain why the brain tends to do this
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Annoyingly, a large part of tulpamancy is just neurologically unknown to us and is only beginning to be dipped into by real science.
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There are a couple of studies still ongoing but there's not exactly any conclusive or insightful things to say at the moment about it that we don't know from other places.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:45 AM
All science is is theories
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I feel like the competition is part of it
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My devotion to empiricism prevents me from making a concrete statement. I have two loves: My Tulpa, Rhys, and my mistress Empiricism.
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At the moment that seems like a statement without any observational data to go with it. A possibility, even a solid one, but not one that has anything to settle on.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:49 AM
I mean
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Is it really possible to prove the statement anyways?
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Yes. Possibly. But it relies on first understanding how we generate identities. There's been some exploration of that topic - But chiefly we'd need to be able to look at a brain and see whether it is generating a new identity state.
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And we are kinda not there yet.
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But if we can do that. We would theoretically be able to look at a baby brain and see if it is generating more than one then favouring one as it functions better.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:52 AM
Mean it would make sense
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We have said that there is really no real difference between a host and a tulpa?
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Well
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Don't tulpas change alot when they are for to developing?
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Here's another question: Is there any value in such a competition versus just having a single identity compete with itself, knowing that everything a tulpa can do, so to can a host, and vice versa?
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We know identities can hold opposing opinions at the same time, it's disturbingly common.
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Here's another question: Is there any value in such a competition versus just having a single identity compete with itself, knowing that everything a tulpa can do, so to can a host, and vice versa?
berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:53 AM
So the development of a tulpa being similar to a hosts except guided
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I have made a habit of talking to myself
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Arguing with myself even
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Tulpas will be a fun topic to talk to my dad abt
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I've often wondered if that antagonistic-mode me that I'm arguing with is indeed "another" thoughtform or whether it really is me. I think the answer to that is yes on both counts. If a thoughtform feels like me it is me even if it's structurally different. We are not as attached to the data in our memories as we think, identity is actually the "feeling" of identity, mostly. But at the same time it's a subtly different state and line of thought, even if it is associated with me directly.
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snerk You're braver than I, or you have a more fascinating father than I.
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 1:58 AM
He is
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Pretty smart
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An usually has great insight
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My mom would think im weird tho
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Yea
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When i argue with myself
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Itsj
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Slightly different
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Like
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Its usually a very slightly different voice
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Honestly i want a tulpa to help understand my mind
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And other reasons too ofc
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Is it possible to make your tulpa develop as constantly self aware or lucid?
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Your tulpa is just as reliant on your reflexes and abilities as you are. If you possess that ability so will they and vice versa. And they will need to be trained in the same way.
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However...
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You should be aware that tulpas can indeed confabulate experience if you expect them to
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berockly (TTG) 9/25/2021 2:03 AM
What does that mean
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Ie if you ask them, after they have been in stasis for several days and not thinking where they have been, they will be able to give you an answer. Even when in reality quite frankly they have not being extant
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They are usually not convincing, it's suggestion based.
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